Maybe You Are The Problem… That’s a Good Thing!

Looking back, I can’t think of one time when I wasn’t the problem. Loud? Always. Opinionated? Without a doubt. Sometimes for the better, sometimes for the worse.

But here’s the thing—I never spoke just to hear myself talk. I wasn’t loud just for the hell of it. Every time I ruffled feathers, cracked a joke at the wrong time, or shoved my foot firmly down my throat to be part of a discussion, it was coming from a good place:

• Fighting for fairness when things weren’t right.

• Throwing humor into chaos because sometimes, you just have to laugh.

• Speaking up when staying silent felt like a crime because what they did… was, without a shadow-of-a-doubt.

• Making myself useful, because if I wasn’t helping, what was I even doing?

So yeah—maybe… I was the problem. But, what if that’s not the insult we think it is?

What if being the problem is actually the key to growth—to shaking up the system, stepping into your purpose, refusing to sit down when “they” tell you to shut the f*ck up… because deep down, in the depths of your soul, you know you’re onto something?

Let’s talk about that.

Not fitting into the mold—the one they keep reshaping to maintain their carefully constructed facade of control.

At the end of the day, it all comes down to delivery. Speaking the truth—explicitly, respectfully, unapologetically. Holding everyone accountable, including yourself. Owning your role, but never losing sight of the bigger picture.

Because the end result? That’s what really matters.